Every first Wednesday of the month, the IWSG (Insecure Writer’s Support Group) engages writers to share their fears, thoughts, progress, struggles, excitement, encouragement, or anything really, about their writing. A different question is posed each month as a writing prompt. Answering it is optional. For July, the question is: “There have been many industry changes in the last decade, so what are some changes you would like to see happen in the next decade?”
This amazing, supportive group of writers was founded by Alex J. Cavanaugh. Today, the awesome co-hosts are Jenni Enzor, Beth Camp, Tyrean Martinson, Sandra Cox, and yours truly (Liesbet @ Roaming About). If you click on their names, a link will bring you to their websites.
My answer to the question about industry changes
I’m a relatively new (book) writer, so the changes in the last decade did not affect me. Being unexperienced, I can’t suggest positive changes, but on a personal level I wish that every agent and publisher would have the decency, respect, and time to acknowledge or reply to queries, even if it’s with a “thanks but no thanks”. In an ideal world, constructive criticism would accompany the rejections. 😊
A different question: Do writers ever relax?
Does your mind ever stop spinning, spewing ideas, suggesting outlines, demanding attention? Minds must always be busy. At least, mine is. The only time I don’t think about writing is when I hang out with friends and have a good time. Unless we talk about my travel memoir. There must be a name for this condition. Overthinking? Thought Disorder? Mind Mush? Author’s Obsession? Please enlighten me.
View during a two-week stay in Lincolnville, Maine to help out with home renovations (photo courtesy of Dave Stuhlbarg)
Do other creatives have this problem? How about musicians? Do they constantly write music or lyrics in their head? How about painters? Are they always looking around for inspiration? Imagining colors, brush strokes, and finished canvases? I would love to find out.
My book progress
Well, the title of this post should give you a pretty good idea of what I have been doing last month. Not much, when it comes to writing.
As mentioned in early June, I hired a developmental/substantive editor (but haven’t paid her yet) who is supposed to start working on my manuscript shortly. You can read about that process here. Her turnaround time is early August, so by the next IWSG post, I hope to share more.
I still have queries out with traditional publishers. Of the two that requested my full manuscript, one has not replied and the other one (which I had the highest hopes for) sent me this rejection email:
Hi Liesbet,
Sorry for the long delay getting back to you. We’ve all been on reduced hours so it has taken longer to get responses from everyone. I think in better times I would have been able to get a more positive response, but unfortunately with the outlook for all of publishing looking quite dire at the moment, everyone here is playing things very safe. As such we’re going to be focusing much more on core practical books for the foreseeable future.
I’m sorry to have kept you waiting when it’s probably not the news you were hoping for, but I hope the other publishers who requested your manuscript are still keen.
Best wishes for both you and your book.
Jonathan
In other news, a third publishing house requested the entire book for review and about half of the thirty publishers I queried last winter never replied. Soon, I will start looking into self-publication. For people who are curious, my travel memoir exposes insights, experiences, and challenges of my first decade as a nomad, an eight-year sailing journey, and a close-quarter relationship.
To summarize: last month, I didn’t work on my memoir at all and didn’t conduct research in regards to blurb writing, cover designs, methods of self-publishing, etc. either. Instead, husband Mark, dog Maya, and I hopped in our campervan and pursued a change of scenery in Maine and Vermont.
For almost four weeks, we combined helping out family (with renovation work) and visiting friends after a two-week quarantine. Stretching our legs, observing beautiful locations, performing physical (instead of mental) labor, exercising smile muscles, and a few days of relaxation charged our batteries for another period of sheltering in place in the “room above the garage”.
What’s next?
People who know us are aware of the fact that we rarely plan. What I can share is that we will most likely spend at least another month at our “home base” in Massachusetts before hitting the road again, aiming Zesty’s snout west. I had hoped to get my edited manuscript back in July to perform necessary rewrites while living in comfort, but that won’t happen, so we will have to see how this can be combined with our nomadic lifestyle. Time will tell. In the meantime, I will focus on other (writing) projects.
Happy Canada Day to my Canadian friends!
How is your writing going? Any thoughts on the changing industry? How does your mind compare to mine? Can you enlighten me about the names for “thinking” disorders?
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July 1, 2020 at 01:44
Hi Liesbet. Thank you for co-hosting. I do hope you find a publisher for your book. Good luck with that. I see how the epidemic is changing things for the publishing industry or all industries for that matter. Well, I’m trying to find ideas all the time, trying to fit them into my writing schedule. So yes, I’m thinking about writing for a lot of my day. You are doing great with your life..I loved all the pictures. So hoping things go well for you. Keep safe!
July 1, 2020 at 10:25
Hello Sonia! Thanks for the wishes. I kept thinking that, if there is one industry that shouldn’t be too affected by this pandemic, it would be the writing and publishing industry, as people are reading (and buying) much more books than they used to, as a result of staying home. Wrong! Apparently, the publishing houses are making changes that influence authors. 🙁
July 1, 2020 at 03:49
Ha ha, I was just thinking during meditation this morning, that sometimes I would just like to wrench my head off my shoulders and enjoy some silence for a while. Maybe creatives are the lucky ones with heads full of colour and lines, shapes and forms and words. My head just seems to be full of ‘must remember to take the bread out of the freezer and what am I having for dinner tonight’ kind of nonsensical rubbish.
July 1, 2020 at 10:27
Right, Trace??? Wouldn’t that be a relief to find total calm and quietness inside that brain? Although, I think you and I would worry that we had lost our minds if this would be the case, haha. I have a lot of those practical thoughts as well – not so many colors and shapes – but if those items are put down on a (mental) list, it’s back to writing ideas. Non-stop!!
July 1, 2020 at 06:45
I too really wish publishers and editors would provide some kind of response. With a few of the magazines I submit to, there’s an automated response saying they’ve got it and if I don’t hear back within a certain time I’m to assume it’s a no. Even that’s better than being left in limbo, not knowing if there’s still hope or if you need to try elsewhere.
July 1, 2020 at 10:32
Hi Patsy!
I haven’t come across automated responses by sailing magazines I submitted to. The editor eventually gets back to me, either immediately or after some “pushing”. But from the fifteen newspapers I recently contacted in regards to a Covid-related article (in a staggered way), only one provided an automated response. I didn’t hear ANYTHING from the rest and am still shopping around with this time-sensitive piece. Sometimes, the writer’s guidelines mention a time frame.
After submitting queries to agents and publishers, there is usually one of those automated responses like you mention, but then I wonder whether they even look at this extensive document and well-considered letter I just emailed…
July 1, 2020 at 07:07
Great answer to the July question and I whole heartily agree!!
My mind never seems to stop, and it’s why I can’t sleep at night…
Thanks for co-hosting!
July 1, 2020 at 10:34
Hi Cathrina! Yep, there’s that side-effect of thinking too much… not being able to fall (back) asleep. But, would you ever want it the other way around, where nothing is going on “up there”? 🙂
July 1, 2020 at 07:08
I’ve always got way too much going on in my brain, especially early in the morning. I also mostly only seem to get it under control (or ignore it) when I am being social with others. Or during a really good yoga class. Good distractions I suppose.
July 1, 2020 at 10:35
I hear you, Leslie. It’s all about the distractions. Except when concentration is needed to work on or complete a writing project. Let’s hope that those moments coincide with a peaceful environment, no distractions, and a healthy dose of inspiration. 🙂
July 1, 2020 at 07:22
I’ll go with mind mush.
I do often have music going through my head.
Sorry you won’t get the edits back as soon as you wanted.
Thanks for co-hosting today!
July 1, 2020 at 10:38
Mind mush sounds about right, Alex. I’m not surprised you have a continuous stream of music passing through your head. When I was younger, I always had a repetitive song in my head and it was incredibly annoying. Now, this happens less often. Maybe because I rarely listen to music anymore… or because I write more. 🙂 Thanks for always being our host, inspiration, and supporter!!
July 1, 2020 at 09:27
Loved your post, Liesbet! So on the money. Either I have character voices constantly nagging in my head or there’s the hollow echo of downtime between projects. I prefer the company of conversation, myself, but am in the editing and not writing stage so it’s cricket chirping silent. Thanks for co-hosting this month!!
July 1, 2020 at 10:41
Thanks for swinging by, Nancy. Like everything, voices and silence should occur in moderation! It’s interesting that your mind adjusts to a writing or an editing episode. Seems to me like you are in charge, even of those crickets. 🙂
July 1, 2020 at 09:40
No. I never relax, Liesbet. My mind seems to always be thinking about my characters, the next scene, the next book, the next short story. the next deadline, the next blog post, the next newsletter…it never ends. I love it though, but it would probably be more enjoyable if it weren’t for the day job. Don’t get me wrong, I’m blessed to have a good job with wonderful benefits, but juggling everything can be challenging. Yesterday, I finished my first draft for book five, so I’ll be working on edits until the August 31st deadline. I’m sorry you won’t be getting your edits back before you hit the road, but I’m sure you’ll get the job done. I’ll be excited to hear where ole Zesty will be taking you next!
July 1, 2020 at 10:45
You ARE a busy woman, Jill. As active, vibrant, and buzzing as those hummingbirds in your garden! While our brains keep us entertained like that, it is terribly exhausting. I’m always impressed with how much you get done, especially since you have a daytime job as well. Maybe there is a way to go part-time and let go of some of the stress and challenges?
Congratulations on finishing the first draft of another book. You are cranking them out!! Hopefully, your mind gives you a little break while you concentrate on the editing process.
July 1, 2020 at 09:51
That waterfall looks so inviting!
July 1, 2020 at 10:45
We took advantage of the cooling water spit out by that waterfall. 🙂
July 1, 2020 at 09:51
Thanks for hosting. And yes, you’re right, they should reply. Instead of letting us sit and guess.
July 1, 2020 at 10:47
Yep. I often hear about how busy agents, editors, and publishers are. While I totally understand and respect that, leaving someone hanging is just not right. Of course, this is from the mouth of someone who ALWAYS replies to emails, comments, questions, and inquiries. 🙂
July 1, 2020 at 10:06
I find that keeping track of all the things I AM doing helps me to relax, or at least, to feel like I’ve deserved a break. I never feel like I’m making enough progress, but if I track my activities–and my hours–I feel more like I’m making a reasonable effort. I tracked hours for a while, and learned that between writing, the writing community, and my day-job, I’m working the equivalent of two full-time jobs. It IS enough.
July 1, 2020 at 10:52
Hi Karen! Thanks for the visit and the comment.
It sounds like you are a very organized person and that certainly helps to get those thoughts straight and straightened out. And, feel a sense of accomplishment and productivity, for sure. Maybe I should track my hours as well, but then I think, “what is work and what isn’t?” This is an entirely different topic, because if work is defined as making money, I sure am “wasting” most of my days on non-work! 🙂
I’m always in awe of writers/authors who also have a full-time day job. How do you people do this?????
July 1, 2020 at 10:14
What a fun post. I liked your question–hadn’t thought about how I think so much about my stories. I’m really glad to know that you’re the same. Makes it seem normal, don’t you think? Love the pictures, both relaxing and working. A pretty nice rejection letter, despite being a no! I’ve gotten a lot worse. I look forward to your thoughts about working with a developmental editor.
July 1, 2020 at 10:58
I think writers and creatives always have that brain working, Jacqui and while I often wish it wasn’t so (it can be exhausting – my husband says he wouldn’t want to be in my head, ever), I am glad about the productivity, inspiration, common sense, and “enlightenment’ that often comes with the thinking process. So, I do think you and I are pretty normal. 🙂
This was probably the nicest and most in-depth rejection letter I have received so far. I usually collect blah and impersonal rejection letters. That’s the norm, if there is any reaction at all!
July 1, 2020 at 10:29
Great post! I agree on the need for responses from agents and editors (I’m indie now, so not a problem for me anymore ;)). Back in the way old days, when I was going for an agent, they DID used to respond. Funny thing, they could respond when it was snail mail, but now that everything is online, many have no response system in place. Obviously, it was a way of doing business in the past, that got lost. As for thinking about writing all the time? The only name for it is, “writer”. 🙂
July 1, 2020 at 11:05
Haha, Marie! I love your answer for how we, thinkers about writing, are called. Right on! And it is, indeed, curious how a reply by email would be so much quicker than a reply by snail mail, yet, it is deemed unnecessary these days. Many businesses seem to have changed that “old fashioned customer service” in recent decades. Maybe it has to do with how the writing market has exploded over the years. It seems like everyone is writing a book now, but that might be because of the literary circles I find myself in. 🙂
July 1, 2020 at 11:07
I once got a very helpful rejection, and I wish every agent or publisher could do that. You don’t know what didn’t work if everyone puts out the same form rejection.
And yes, I think all forms of artists are always working things over in their heads. I don’t write as many songs I used to, but melodies and lyrics do still form in my head.
Thanks for co-hosting!
July 2, 2020 at 09:32
Hi Debra! So nice that you received a helpful rejection once. I know this would require extra time and effort from the agent/publisher/editor without getting benefits in return, so if anyone would provide more than just a quick answer, that’s a bonus. My rejections always noted the “subjective nature” of acceptance and to not take things personal… There must be a lot of busy heads out there! 🙂
July 1, 2020 at 11:15
Thanks for cohosting this month. Wow. Was that a nice rejection letter. That an editor took the time to explain is fantastic. You should be very happy. Okay, not jumping up & down happy. After all, it was a rejection. But still amazing. I hope you have a great month.
July 2, 2020 at 09:36
Hi Diane! Yes, that rejection letter was about as personal, caring, and genuine as can be. The part I didn’t mention in my post was that he and I had build somewhat of a relationship via Twitter and email over the last few months and – since this is a nautical publishing house – those factors had me hoping for more… Wishing you a fantastic and writerly month as well!!
July 1, 2020 at 11:30
It would be a much better world if publishers did take or have the time to respond to all of the submissions. Of course, any of them would be rolling their eyes while reading your post or my comment.
Thanks for co-hosting today. It’s writers like you who make IWSG so wonderful.
July 2, 2020 at 09:44
Haha! I don’t think those publishers would have time to read this blog post or your comment, based on the fact that they don’t even have 30 seconds to reply to each query. They could even do that WHILE rolling their eyes! Thank you for the compliment, C.Lee! By the way, your banner/home page of your blog is genius! And, I love your “about me” page too.
July 1, 2020 at 11:42
Thanks for the peek into your travels! Hubs and I are toying with the idea of renting an RV for safer travels.
July 2, 2020 at 09:46
Hi Sadira! Thanks for swinging by and happy travels! Renting an RV is VERY expensive, but probably the best bet for a few weeks, unless someone is willing to lend one to you. If it’s for longer trips, I would highly recommend buying a used RV and selling it again whenever you’re done. Some of them hold their value if you only use it for a year or two, minus the costs put into them, of course.
July 1, 2020 at 12:08
Hi,
I believe my comment got swallowed up. I agree that it would be respectful if agents, publishers, and editors replied back. That is showing respect. I am happy though that some do resply.
All the best and thank you for co-hosting.
Shalom aleichem,
Pat G @ EverythingMustChange
July 2, 2020 at 09:53
Hi Pat! Aleichem shalom.
Your first comment actually showed up in my folder to be moderated, which is weird, since you have visited me here before. I deleted it, as it was a duplicate. Thanks for persevering and leaving another comment. Unfortunately, in this world, I feel that respect, common sense, and consideration are difficult to find these days. Therefore, I applaud people replying to emails, inquiries, blog comments, and queries and business owners and employees acknowledging and helping their customers. While this should be the “nice thing to do”, we are now happy (and in awe) when this kind and respectful behavior does take place. A bit warped??
Have a wonderful end of the week!
July 1, 2020 at 13:17
I also wish all publishers and agents would respond to query letters. With that said, that rejection you got is disappointing. The pandemic is sure impacting everything. *sigh*
Wish you all the best with your submissions!
July 1, 2020 at 20:52
Thanks, Chrys! Rejections are never fun, but I had held out my hopes for this particular publisher after having a couple of email conversations. Knowing that the pandemic has an impact on these decisions is disappointing. Oh well. One thing always leads to another and one way or another, I’ll get this memoir published!
July 1, 2020 at 13:17
The delayed replies are indeed maddening! You are fortunate to be able to be on the road during these times. Here in India, I haven’t ventured more than 3 kms from my home since early March.
Wish you luck for the book!
July 1, 2020 at 20:56
Hi Noor! Thank you for visiting and leaving a comment. Sorry to read that you’ve been pretty isolated and sheltered these last months. I hope India is doing well in regards to the amount of cases and is keeping things under control. My understanding is that, like in Europe, the precautions have been worth it. In the US, it has been a mixed bag. Wearing a mask in public places indoors and keeping six feet distance seem to be the main rules at the moment.
July 1, 2020 at 13:39
Often, writing calms the chaos. So, maybe we do relax once in awhile 😉
Thanks for co-hosting!
July 1, 2020 at 20:57
Now that’s a good way of looking at it, Diedre! I wonder whether that’s why I have been writing a daily diary since I was fourteen…
July 1, 2020 at 13:57
I don’t mind if agents/editors don’t respond to queries. I’d rather get no response than a form rejection. But it’s becoming more common not to get a response to fulls, which I think is terrible.
I hope you store up a lot of ideas for your work on your adventures!
July 1, 2020 at 21:01
Hi Jenni!
The problem for me – with a no response instead of a form rejection – is that I don’t trust whether the agent/publisher even received, let alone glanced at my submission. Maybe, one day, I’ll get used to being ignored. Not receiving news after sending a full is even worse, I agree.
So many story ideas… I really ought to stop my nomadic lifestyle in order to write all the stories and books I have in me. But, that is not likely to change any time soon, as it’s either living the life or writing about it. Whoever will read my lifetime journals in the future is in for a lifetime adventure. Not that they’ll ever be published. 🙂
July 1, 2020 at 14:01
Thanks for co-hosting this month. It would be nice to recieve constructive criticism with a rejection. I’ve been writing poetry lately, which I don’t usually do or like, but it’s been helping me cope with the state of the world. I’m okay with completing short projects but I havne’t completed a novel in 2 years. The last one I completed hasn’t been edited or shared with anyone else. Don’t know when I will. Best of luck with your other submissions.
July 1, 2020 at 21:05
Hi Toi! You’re very welcome.
How nice that you ventured into a new genre because of the pandemic. I’m glad poetry is (somewhat) keeping you sane. When I was younger, I would create personal poems for friends or family members when it was their birthday or for other special occasions. I have totally stopped that due to lack of time. You’re inspiring me to pick that thoughtful habit up again. Short projects sound just fine to me. After this memoir is published, I’d rather focus on a more manageable writing tasks myself.
July 1, 2020 at 14:01
Hi. Liesbet! Thanks for co-hosting today and thanks for a great post! It was fun to catch up on what you are doing. It looks like you’re managing to get out and about and have safe fun. Terry and I have largely been self-isolating in our home because catching Covid-19 would be dangerous for us. So aside from walks outside, I’ve been focusing on homey things and writing things. I can now make great biscotti, and I’ve revived my bread baking skills. Yes, replies would be appreciated, even if it was bad news. All the best to you and with your memoir.
July 1, 2020 at 21:09
That biscotti sounds mighty nice! Are you the reason I didn’t find any (unbleached) flour for weeks, last month? Just kidding. I’m glad you and Terry find ways to stay busy and productive while sheltering in place and staying safe. Thank you for the well wishes and I hope you are both doing well and staying positive!
July 1, 2020 at 15:21
I think the best thing about writing is letting all those ideas and people out of your head! Mine seem to have escaped now, but I’m hoping some of them will come back after I’ve had a rest!
Thank you for co-hosting today. 😉
July 1, 2020 at 21:28
Hi Jemima! Thank you for swinging by and making me smile with your comment as I’m visualizing all the ideas jumping from my head onto the page, or better, screen! I hope they let you rest now and become your muse again whenever you’re ready. 🙂
July 1, 2020 at 15:39
I agree with you that it would be great if all editors and agents would respond to queries. That’s awesome that you have gotten requests for manuscripts even if it didn’t result in a “yes.” A lot of people don’t even get that response.
Looking forward to hearing more news from you in August. Thanks for co-hosting.
July 1, 2020 at 21:33
You’re welcome, Natalie. I don’t put too much weight in the full manuscript requests. Yes, it’s a step further, but if it doesn’t pan out, I’m back to square zero. I think I might write a few more follow-up emails next week – to publishers and my editor – to figure out what the scoop is. Hopefully, I DO have more news in August!
July 1, 2020 at 15:39
Bummed to learn about further cutbacks in the publishing industry. I would think there would be an increase in demand for good writing at a time like this but apparently not. Perhaps people are feeling to confined to dream about grand travel adventures at the moment. I thought the rejection letter was thoughtful though and am happy to hear a third publishing house has expressed interested in reviewing the book.
Great to see you surrounded by that glorious change of scenery. You may need to put those westward plans on hold given the ever-evolving coronavirus.
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder?!?! But in a good way.
July 1, 2020 at 21:38
Hi Lisa!
Thanks for reading and commenting on this writing-focused post. Yes, that rejection letter was a nice one. And personal. I’d exchanged a few emails with Jonathan prior to this decision, which made me hopeful. Oh well. I have to keep moving forward with this project…
I also thought people (and publishers) would become even more interested in stories, especially “escape stories” to tropical destinations, so I was surprised as well to discover the opposite. I’ll never be able to understand some of the things that are going on during this pandemic.
Hey, I thought about calling it OCD as well when I pondered my “thinking disease”, but when I read the definition online, it didn’t seem quite right.
When/if we head west, we plan on hiding in the Colorado mountains for a bit. 🙂
July 2, 2020 at 15:18
Colorado sounds A-MA-ZING.
Maybe we could call it POCD (The Positive aspects of OCD that push you forward to be a brilliant writer)
July 3, 2020 at 11:44
I LOVE your new term, Lisa. Peta mentioned that this POCD condition is called “monkey mind”. 🙂
July 1, 2020 at 16:05
Thanks for co-hosting! I also wish more agents and publishers would respond with more than form rejections. They needn’t be long and detailed, but a few brief lines would be nice.
July 1, 2020 at 21:45
Hi Carrie-Anne! Thank you for swinging by and leaving a comment. And, for agreeing with me. 🙂 Most authors would appreciate to find out where they stand, I think. So much effort goes into these queries, let alone writing the manuscript, to just getting ignored.
July 1, 2020 at 16:31
I think my mind’s condition should be called Mind Mush. You got that totally right. Lots of thoughts are constantly swirling in my head: story ideas, characters’ conversations, etc. I wish they would stop sometimes, or at least focus on something specific.
July 1, 2020 at 22:01
So, you know the feeling too, Olga. I also think Mind Mush resembles the mess inside our heads the best. Sometimes, beneficial tidbits and grandiose ideas emerge, but it would be nice to turn that think machine off once in a while. Have you found a trick to keep the noise down yet?
July 1, 2020 at 17:09
I’m so sorry you are having such a frustrating time with publishing:( It’s been such a sad time. My book was released in March and all the festivities were canceled. Let’s hope there are better times ahead.
Thank you for hosting this month!
July 1, 2020 at 22:05
Hi Doreen! I’m so sorry to read that the in-person festivities around your book launch have been cancelled and I hope you were able to substitute them with virtual performances somehow, on social media or Zoom. I have often contemplated during these first months of Covid how it would be the worst time for authors who just released a book. Sharing your hope (and desire) for better times ahead! Nobody could have predicted this obstacle! 🙁
July 1, 2020 at 17:24
Liesbet, I have a brain that never stops yammering too. When I’m actively writing, my thoughts are churning away on my characters, my story world, a plot hole, or whatever. When I walk outside, I’m thinking about paintings I might do — scenes, composition, colours, etc. And the rest of the time, I’m busy planning errands, cooking, events, and so on, or thinking about people, relationships, and ideas. Meditation does not come easy to me….
Jude
July 1, 2020 at 22:27
Jude, it’s so nice that you have this “split” creativity, words when needed and joyful color combinations that lead to paintings. Add to that all the daily buzz going on in your head and I can totally see how it’s never quiet for you either. I guess it’s just the curse of creatives, or, of highly intelligent people. 🙂
The couple of times I tried to meditate, it was a complete failure. But, I do think that practice makes perfect. We have to be more stubborn and strong than our own minds.
July 1, 2020 at 17:42
I wouldn’t call myself a writer but I am always thinking about the blog and how we will tell the story of what we are currently doing. In retrospect when I’m writing the story of something we did, I sometimes think, I wish I had gotten a picture of this or that but this or that is long gone. So I end up trying to figure out what the story will be as we go along. I wonder sometimes if I’m taking out some of the enjoyment of our nomadic life – but really do like doing the blog too.
I’m glad you got out of your teeny apartment. It must have felt great to get away for a while!
And I’m looking forward to when you start to travel again. I hope we can converge as we start heading east late summer/fall.
July 1, 2020 at 22:33
Duwan, I often have that sentiment or dilemma about the writing (blogs or otherwise) and it taking away from adventures and/or relaxation. I think, “after this book is finished…” or “after this writing project is finished…”, I’ll take a break and just focus on life on the road and our travels. Of course, that never happens. Then, I think about retirement, haha. I don’t think I’d ever give up blogging, because, really, the schedule and contents are entirely up to ourselves and we have the freedom to do with it what we want. But, it would be nice to not have that weight on my shoulders about needing to make money or finish work assignments.
Being away from the apartment for a few weeks was the break we needed. I do hope, after some sitting still and catching up, we manage to move into Zesty again and meet you and Greg on our way west.
July 1, 2020 at 19:21
Even if I’m not in the middle of a writing project, I’m in the middle of some project. No, the mind won’t turn off unless I’m slack-jawed in front of the TV.
July 1, 2020 at 22:34
Hi Tamara! You made me snicker… “Slack-jawed”? I’ve never heard that word, but the picture I have in my head now cracks me up! And that’s why watching TV can be such a guilty pleasure, even though I rarely do it. Thanks for reading and commenting!
July 1, 2020 at 21:53
I take some comfort in learning that the state of my mind is not only in MY mind. It never shuts off. I’ve also been a bit idle, but found solace in starting a new project since I was getting nowhere with the revision of my book. It has helped immensely. Now the competing voices can argue amongst themselves and leave me out of it. 🙂
July 2, 2020 at 09:58
It sounds like you found peace in your head by becoming the moderator of the voices, Lee! 🙂 While this state of mind isn’t necessarily a good thing, I’m glad to have found my tribe of busy brains here, as my husband (whom I am with 24/7) doesn’t understand and my roaming lifestyle doesn’t “allow” me to have a community or friends nearby. Enjoy working on your new project! There are always more of those…
July 1, 2020 at 23:41
Liesbet, you are such a thoughtful woman. I am really interested to hear your answers. I believe “unexperienced” can equal, unfiltered, genuine and authentic thoughts to add to the conversation. Your first answer is really “The Golden Rule.” Kindness should be a common sense requirement. Common sense is not always common. I am very much a fan of your writing, and I know how ultimately you will get your memoir published. There is a lot to be said for exercising “smile muscles.” Warm hugs to you xx
July 2, 2020 at 10:01
Erica, you always have the most positive spin on everything. I love it! Every time I read your comments or reply to them, there is a smile etched on my face. Exercising smile muscles is a rare occupation for me; I’m glad you pointed out that part of my post. You truly understand me and believe in the same values. Let’s all make this world a better place! Sending warm (hot, actually) hugs right back at you!
July 1, 2020 at 23:48
Busy brain is what I call it. I don’t mind that it runs constantly during the day, but I do wish it would let me sleep!! Good luck with the queries!
July 2, 2020 at 10:04
That’s it, Donna, “busy brain” to mull over that mind mush. 🙂 During the day, it rarely occurs to me what’s happening, except when I bombard my husband with five ideas/questions/thoughts in quick succession and he doesn’t even have the chance to react to the first four. I then blame him for being too slow. Thanks for the query wishes and here’s to peaceful ponderings at night!
July 2, 2020 at 00:00
Hi, Liesbet – Like Lisa, I thought that there would be an increased demand for publications, not a decrease. I remain confident that your editor is out there. I really want to read your book!
July 2, 2020 at 10:06
Thanks for the continued support and well wishes, Donna! Don’t worry, you will be able to read that book. I just don’t know when yet! Hopefully by the end of 2020… 🙂 I trust that my chosen editor will start on my project soon and everything else will have to play out somehow.
July 2, 2020 at 01:07
Whatever that mind thing you got going is called, I’ve got something similar. My mind is always working. If thinking could write books, I’d be hugely prolific. Wouldn’t we all.
Arlee Bird
Tossing It Out
July 2, 2020 at 10:09
Hi Arlee! Welcome to the “busy brain” club, where mind mush can be a hindrance that keeps us awake at night or a muse that provides us with publishable material. 🙂 I have so often said (mostly to myself) that I wished “head writing” could mold into written books. Yeah… the prose would be pretty perfect!
July 2, 2020 at 14:32
Hello, Liesbet. What a surprise to see you as a co-host the very same time I volunteered. So we’re on the same path . . . The summer you’re describing looks wonderful, time with family and Maya, soon freedom back on the road. The process you’re describing in submitting your memoir to traditional publishers (and the delay between submit and their response) matches my experience. The final straw for me came when a small publishing house sent me a form letter that said, “We received your submission. If you don’t hear from us within six months, we’re not interested.” That was it for me, and I began that long learning curve to self-publishing. Today, I’m proud to be an indie writer, am still learning, and still writing.
Now, re the ideas that keep your mind busy. Do you journal? That can be a good way to draw, jot, and dream your way into future stories. I’ve used a small, inexpensive $1.99 journal for travel as they fit everywhere, don’t require a plug-in, and are always handy, sturdy enough to prop up when I’m scribbling away anywhere. Celebrate that creative mind of yours. Maybe that’s your future muse trying to tell you what’s next? I hope you all have a good and safe summer. Pet Maya for me. Beth
July 3, 2020 at 11:41
Hi Beth!
I’ll be over to your blog later today as well. I saw you as one of the co-hosts in the IWSG newsletter last week. Such a coincidence. It’s a privilege to share my co-host duties with you! 🙂
Our summer started out lovely with these visits. Now, it’s back to self-isolation in a small room. I sure wish I had my manuscript to revise (this is when I have the time and logistics), but I have to be patient… I totally get why you chose the self-publishing route. I’ve received form letters like that as well. When a publisher mentions it would take six months to get back to me (or not get back to me) or when the guidelines request the manuscript by snail mail, I move on from those ones.
I don’t journal about my writing, but I have kept a daily diary (in which I write – and proofread – half an hour at the end of each evening) since I was 14. Enough material in there for many new books. Also, I write my story and book ideas down in Word documents and have those organized in files. I can’t tell you how many half-written articles I have and how many full-fledged book ideas (at least five) I have brewing somewhere! Thing is… I’m a traveler more than a writer. So, I constantly collect new experiences and topics and will NEVER have the time to turn these into compelling books, unless I stop traveling!! 🙂
Maya wags back at you!!
July 2, 2020 at 15:00
It is a bit of an occupational hazard that writers write all the time. It’s not a job that has clear hours and a shut-off valve, even if you’re very disciplined! Also tricky because it’s both work AND play. Oh well, so long as we don’t drive ourselves too crazy, right? @samanthabwriter from
Balancing Act
July 3, 2020 at 11:43
Hi Samantha! How to keep oneself from becoming crazy, or too obsessed? 🙂 I guess the writing occupation (or hobby) can be compared to running a business and working from home. You’re never done! But, it’s usually all exciting stuff, unless it becomes too much and too tiring…
July 2, 2020 at 19:51
Liesbet, very interesting reading about your constant busy mind thinking about writing non stop. I can’t recall whether or not you practice yoga, but there is a term for this. It is called the “monkey mind” ~ when our mind is constantly full of thoughts non stop and or jumping from one to the other. It is quite normal actually, we all “suffer” from it.
The good news, is that there is a solution. Buddhists made the slowing down of the mind and the observation of it, the central tenant of their meditative practise. It is available to all of us. Funny that you write about this now because I just started an online month long mindful meditation course which gives a lot of insight and practise into how to observe the mind and still it. It is free, with donations optional, run by a friend of mine from years back ~ she was the teacher at my yoga teacher training. If you are interested to sign up, please send me a note on instagram and I will connect you with her and the course. It may not be too late. I am already enjoying it and starting to calm down my creative monkey mind.
Love the photos.
Peta
July 3, 2020 at 11:52
Hi Peta!
Thanks for clarifying the term for this “condition” – monkey mind. I love it and the alliteration. Does this mean that monkeys think a lot?? 🙂 I used to do yoga when I was still on our sailboat and later as well, when the logistics (and time and mindset) allowed. But, it comes difficult for me – I lose patience, it takes a lot of time out of my day, and I don’t like being uncomfortable – so I quit a while ago, despite having experienced the benefits of yoga!
And, thank you for the offer of connecting me to your mindful meditation teacher. I’m going to pass for now. Call it stubbornness or laziness, but I’m just not up for something like this right now. And, I’d like to try out some techniques myself first, before diving into courses. I do want to try meditation in the near future, when I have less going on; when I’ll be able to give it my full attention and effort. If that makes sense…
July 2, 2020 at 20:50
I think writer’s minds are always running. Unfortunately, that doesn’t always translate into getting things accomplished. At least not in my case. Hopefully that will change as the year goes on.
Thanks for co-hosting IWSG this month!
July 3, 2020 at 11:55
Hi Ken! I have come to that realization as well. Busy minds, but not always in a productive way. I sometimes wonder whether I will run out of brain cells by the time I turn sixty, haha. It is good to know that there are a lot of us in the same boat, however. And, thinking lots seems to be a better option than not thinking at all. Imagine the chaos – not so much inside our heads, but outside of it – this would cause…
July 2, 2020 at 22:10
Hi Liesbet! Your summer sounds ideal and thank you for sharing photos with us who are rooted tone spot. It is so discouraging to be ignored by some.publishers. well all I can say is that you haven’t found the right one yet. I’m sure you will. I look forward to reading your travel writings. Thank you for co-hosting. Enjoy the rest of your travels.
July 3, 2020 at 12:03
Hi Kalpanaa!
Thanks for swinging by and leaving a comment. June was a pretty enjoyable month for us – an oh so welcome change – but now we are back to our “borrowed” room. At least our batteries are charged. I’m sorry to read that you haven’t been able to move about much in India and I just saw that the numbers are still not looking great where you live. 🙁
I feel guilty posting photos of nice scenery while others don’t have the luxury to enjoy a bit of sightseeing, so I’m glad you liked the distraction. As we don’t have a real home other than our campervan, we will have to see how the future of travel unfolds…
As far as the right publisher, my hopes are not too high anymore and I have a feeling I’ll go the self-publishing route soon.
July 3, 2020 at 01:12
As a writer/artist is my mind always working, non-stop? I guess you can say it is because when I’m not planning or writing a story or sketching an illustration then I’m dreaming. When I’m not dreaming (or doing any of the other above) I’m reading.
July 3, 2020 at 12:08
Hi Steven! It sure sounds like your mind is wrapped around writing. Interesting when we pause and think about that probability, right? When I consider this, I realize I’m either writing emails, blog comments, articles, blog posts, book notes, grocery lists, … or I’m editing my own work, other’s work as a friend, or a magazine as a job. Or, I’m reading what I wrote, a book, blog posts, emails, … I guess the only time we don’t do anything related to writing is when we hang out with friends or family and have fun. Even when I go for a hike or a walk (with our dog), I think about these topics. I love your dreaming idea – that sounds like a fantastic escape. 🙂
July 3, 2020 at 10:55
It seems there are few industries left untouched during these times. I had not realized publishing would be as well. It must take a great deal of drive, passion and determination. The fact that you think about writing all the time would seem that you love doing it?
Best wishes as your months ahead unfold.
July 3, 2020 at 12:34
I love writing, Sue, but sometimes it’s a love – hate relationship, because there are so many other things I love doing. Like hiking, discussing, reading, and traveling. There is the fact that I feel obliged to write (just like I am “supposed” to be taking photos all the time): blog posts, diary entries, replies to comments, comments on blogs, emails, … It’s a self-imposed obligation, of course, but it feels like I never get a break from it. Priorities. I’ll get there one day. 🙂
July 3, 2020 at 23:28
Best of luck with your writing and querying!
July 5, 2020 at 11:21
Thanks, Yvonne. Determination is one of the most important writer traits! 🙂
July 5, 2020 at 02:25
Your post title put a smile on my face. 😄
“Overthinking? Thought Disorder? Mind Mush? Author’s Obsession?” Haha! All those words fit perfectly. But at this particular moment, it’s called Covid Brain-Crunch! 😂
Thank you for sharing all the beautiful pictures.
Thanks for co-hosting the IWSG this month, Liesbet!
Good luck with the writing!
Stay safe.
July 5, 2020 at 11:24
Hi Michelle! Thanks for the visit. Apparently it’s called Monkey Mind. But, I agree that there is now a side strand to this condition, making the original condition even more challenging. Covid Brain-Crunch of the Monkey Mind. Now wouldn’t that make for a fantastic title, either for a blog post, an article, or a movie? 🙂 Thanks for the wishes and the same to you!!! Stay safe, be well, keep writing, despite any conditions…
July 6, 2020 at 14:31
I believe that creative folks are always thinking of their ways to create, Liesbet. I’m always planning my next blog post, theme and the images to go with them. As I think about my fitness book while exercising or experience a different feeling, I wonder if that insight is good for the book. Then I wake up in the middle of the night wondering something else…yes, I’ve heard it is “monkey mind.” I’m sure your writing journey will continue successfully for you. With your available time, self-publishing would be a good route for you. You have a wealth of bloggers who would help you with a blog tour! Stay safe and hope to “see” you and your gang out west soon!
July 8, 2020 at 11:15
Welcome to the club, Terri! And, hey, at least you knew it was called “monkey mind”. 🙂 Some days I’m more OK with all those thoughts than other days. It’s one of the reason why people like you and me will NEVER be bored – our mind always has new ideas and projects in store. As long as the thoughts about a certain project disappear, once it is finished! And, no regrets take place…
It surely appears that self-publishing is the way to go for me now, Terri. It has been confirmed by more traditional publishers, one of which sent me a really nice rejection letter. It is what it is. I don’t mind having total control and going this route; I just wish all those previous years of pursuing the traditional route didn’t have to be “wasted”.
July 6, 2020 at 18:58
Thanks for the Canada Day wishes! Happy 4th of July to you.
There have been a lot of changes in the industry since I first self-published in 2011. I was lucky to ride the early wave of e-books, and there were several years where I didn’t need to promote my books at all. Now the market is flooded with e-books and it’s getting harder to promote effectively enough to maintain a market share. According to my industry reading, audiobooks are poised to be the “next big thing”; but time will tell.
And I completely understand your writer’s brain! I don’t try to explain to my non-writing friends how my mind is sometimes completely occupied with mental dialogue even though my body is present and nodding as though it comprehends what they’re saying. Having the brain of a writer is like living in a thin-walled apartment building where the neighbours never shut up!
July 8, 2020 at 11:23
Hi Diane!
A mellow Fourth of July here, possibly similar to yours, with a BBQ and a few family members, socially distanced (in the driveway, not in a big yard or porch…)
I really appreciate your feedback and experiences here as it enhances the information available, provides valuable insights, and you are one of my experts! You have actually seen some of the industry changes and worked with them, learning as you go. And, you keep up on the trends and adjust your marketing plans accordingly. I remember your desire to change your book covers to make them more up-to-date, and your wonderful audio person. As always, you are so on the right track!
You are on the ball with your comment “Having the brain of a writer is like living in a thin-walled apartment building where the neighbours never shut up!” Haha! I love it. And, it’s why my husband is so happy (and lucky) to never be in my head. 🙂
July 6, 2020 at 22:38
Great share Liesbet. Your sharing of the editor’s letter was interesting. Funny how a book now fits what is au currant at the moment. Like clothes that aren’t in style, lol. Seriously, I’ve never submitted my books, but from what I’ve read from plenty of famous authors, many of them had many rejections, like Stephen King. I admire your tenacity. And glad you’re staying in Mass. awhile longer as not a great time to be traveling the US! Stay safe! <3
July 8, 2020 at 11:28
Hi Debby! I have a feeling that, at the end of this steep and time-consuming learning curve about how to publish my book, I will say something like “I should have listened to or followed suit of my self-published author and blogger friends!” 🙂 Tenacity is a good word. Or, you could call it stubbornness – the need to try everything else first. As far as Covid-times go, we will have to see how much longer we last doing dishes in a bathroom sink and sleeping on a sofa bed…
July 8, 2020 at 15:13
Oye! LOL. And ‘tenacity’ is a prettier word. <3
July 9, 2020 at 10:02
True that. I am tenacious! 🙂
July 7, 2020 at 08:37
Thank you Lisbeth for your co-host post. You took me places. After 2 months confinement here in France, I also needed to travel and take pictures of other sights than my garden, my cycling route to the baker’s , sunsets Nd sunrises.
Sorry about your travel memoir. I understand why the publisher didn’t see it as a priority though, as travelling will be slowing down considerably worldwide in the next year or so … However, ‘ Jonathan’ could learn to write a better rejection letter, I thought, or at least read through it before sending … poor quality for an editor …
Love your photographs. If you self-publish, I will certainly be a customer; eight years on a sailboat, sounds exhilarating.
Take care and wishing you a restful summer …. from your mind always on the go (us writers, unfortunately, have to live with it. Even in sleep, it demands attention with dreams).
July 8, 2020 at 11:34
Hi Susan!
Thank you for swinging by and leaving an in-depth comment. I assume things are improving en France maintenant? In Belgium, life is turning more and more normal, with business open and travel allowed. Happy exploring!
I see two different takes on the reading of travel narratives the coming months: no interest as the travel industry will be slow to recover (and there certainly is no interest from traditional publishers) or an increase in interest as people would love to “escape” their isolated lives and look forward to traveling virtually through books (like you enjoyed me taking you places while you were stuck). 🙂
Thank you for your interest in my travel memoir – it is a compelling read and covers much more than our sailing lifestyle. The book is at the editor now and one of my goals is to create a page turner. Don’t think or dream too much; although, that can be entertaining as well.
July 9, 2020 at 12:02
Hi Liesbet,
Sorry I missed this. I’d checked July, but it was hidden in June.
That’s a really depressing message from the publisher, and is the opposite of what I’ve been hearing from my agency. People are buying books more than ever, now that they’re stuck at home. I don’t understand his take, but perhaps their own sales are down.
I wish people who receive submissions would bother to reply too. Even a form letter is better than nothing. Magazines have also taken this “no response means no” approach, which is troublesome, because often editors miss your email or forget to reply. So no response can actually mean any number of things. Argh.
Regarding blurbs: I highly recommend the “Indie Cover Project” group on Facebook. They’ve been absolutely fantastic, and so helpful.
July 10, 2020 at 14:08
Hi JH,
My bad… I usually post on the IWSG day itself, but because I was a co-host and Wednesday would be a busy day for other reasons as well, I decided to not only write but also post this one the evening prior, which was still in June. I was playing with the idea to somehow change the date of the posting, but am not sure this is possible. I should have looked into that, as I prefer the post to be date stamped on July 1st too.
Like you and your agency, I thought sales would go up and coincide with the increased book buying that’s going on. But, by now I received a rejection from another (genuine) publisher who will also pause their accepting and publishing of new authors and books, due to Covid. According to him, part of the reason is because customers are being slow to return to the book stores.
My sentiments exactly about not hearing back from agents and publishers… And, how annoying that magazines decide to not reply now too! I experienced that with at least ten newspapers recently as well. They all request exclusives, but how do we know when to resubmit the article if they don’t reply at all? Disrespectful. Yet, they don’t want simultaneous queries… I waited about a week in each case and then resubmitted. Not getting anywhere in the end. 🙁
Thanks for the recommendation of the Indie Cover Project Facebook page. I’ll check it out shortly!!